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She is leather—
an old saddle worn,
a new jacket born
and a black belt
with daring design
studded with skulls, black and gold
tanned and glossy, loud and bold.

She is lace—
an old dress’s frill,
a new bride’s thrill
and that bow in girls’ hair,
their soft, flowing hair,
speckled with flowers, pink and white
trimmed and pretty, cute and trite.

She is cotton—
typical,
practical
and forgotten.

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To be great at Scrabble, many people think the only prerequisites are having a good vocabulary and the ability to spell. That is not the case. These skills are helpful, but they alone will not guarantee Scrabble success. Online Scrabble has brought this to light because it differs from the board game in two significant ways. It provides players with a dictionary and it racks up points automatically, giving all players, including bad spellers, the ability to rapidly test a number of scenarios before playing. The “challenge” aspect of the Scrabble board game, during which a pretentious good speller will, with great satisfaction, make his/her opponent lose 97 point by proving that ZENTIAS is not a word, is not part of online Scrabble. This puts the spelling bee champ on a level playing field with the kid whose favorite subject in school was recess. [click to continue…]

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Jane

May 2, 2012
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We married twelve years ago today

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On Tying Shoes

April 28, 2012
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You couldn’t have told me as I was standing proudly over my outstretched, oxford-clad foot on the playground, but I had just taken my first step in the direction of independence. I’d pushed open the big-girl gate of freedom and danced right on through it. I’d taken the matter of unfettered, personal mobility into my [...]

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Whining=Danger

April 9, 2012
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I recently finished reading Maya Angelou’s book Wouldn’t Take Nothing for my Journey Now. If you haven’t read it, do. It’s a short book so packed with wisdom, light, and truth that I’m going to read it again. My favorite passage from it will be etched in my brain forever: “Whining is not only graceless, [...]

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Interactive Fiction: Read it and Reap

February 7, 2012
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About a week ago, while reading East of the Web, I came across what is known as interactive fiction (IF). What is interactive fiction? Is it a game? Is it a story? The answer: It’s both. Players (or readers) use text commands to direct characters and influence the narrative. The programmer (or author) creates multiple paths for players/readers to take, [...]

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What the heck am I doing?

January 1, 2012
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A few weeks ago, I found myself wondering what exactly is the point of this blog. What am I trying to do? Frankly, I’m surprised I was able to blog for so long without addressing those nagging questions, which were always in the back of my head. For the last nine months, an internal voice [...]

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A digression into tangents

December 27, 2011
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Some of the best discussions are tangents, like when you stop by your coworker’s cubicle to plan a project and end up discussing Mother Teresa, misperceptions about altruism, and how to survive a zombie apocalypse. It takes a certain personality to allow and find pleasure in tangents, or, if you don’t have that personality trait, a [...]

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How to prepare for a windstorm or zombie apocalypse

December 7, 2011
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The violent windstorm that recently struck southern California, especially where I live in the San Gabriel Valley, left more than 225,000 homes and businesses without electricity for days, caused hundred-year-old trees to topple, and made traffic lights go dark. It was unlike anything I’d experienced before. On the night of the windstorm, while I listened to [...]

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Good-bye to a friend I’ve never met

November 20, 2011
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Today I logged on to Twitter to send a message to a friend I’ve never met in person–a beautiful, inspirational young woman with screen name QuietDreamer who lives in Cairo, Egypt. Clicking on her screen name today yielded the following message: “This user does not exist.” She is gone. Yesterday from her apartment she tweeted [...]

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